I am a 30 year old lesbian woman that is wanting to add a second child to my family. My fiance and I have a 4 year old daughter (also conceived by ai). I am Caucasian and my fiance is black. My daughters sperm donor was black and I am looking for another black man to donate so both children resemble my fiance and I.
Right now, my fiance is on the east coast getting things set up (housing, decent neighborhood, looking for good schools) so we can hopefully move out there this summer before school starts. I am wanting to already be pregnant before we make our cross country move.
My fiance has a well paying, stable job and I am enrolling into school to become a dental assistant either after the third month of pregnancy (less chance of stress induced miscarriage and less morning sickness), or after we move.
Right now, I have a very stable and loving support system of family and friends to help while my fiance is away. Our family is very close and they are very excited to add another baby to the family.
As for me, I am 5'6" tall, on the thicker side but not quite a bbw, long natural blonde hair but it's dyed dark brown and blue eyes. I am very artistic, creative, love being outside, love gardening and teaching my daughter how food is grown, love cooking, am an animal lover (have 2 dogs and a cat), love early learning and teaching my daughter any and everything I can. I love spending time with my daughter doing everything from playing with her baby dolls, to tea parties, to painting, learning abcs and 123s...the list goes on. I don't drink, don't smoke, don't do any form of drug, don't party and have never had a babysitter for any reason other then a few minor surgeries. I use the attachment parenting method (no crying it out and answer to every cry as an infant to form an amazing bond), I breastfeed until it is physically not possible any more (my daughter ate more then I produced so she was fully breastfed until 4 months then I pumped and gave her that and formula until she was a year old), I cloth diaper as it's better for baby's skin, I love sitting on the floor playing with baby to teach them to sit/crawl and grasp toys, I turn everything into a fun lesson (look at this pretty pink round rattle...). My daughter knew her ABCs at 2 years old, was potty trained at 23 months, bottle broke at 11 months, was sitting unassisted at 11 weeks (yes, 11 weeks! she was very strong at birth and I worked with her on a yoga ball as soon as her cord fell off, with the ok of her doctor of course).
My child is my life and is very well cared for and loved, as will be the new baby. We have put a lot of thought into adding another child and things couldn't be better to start trying now.
Since my fiance is out of state right now, she won't be part of the insemination, so I will be doing it myself. I would like it to be done in my home. That way I don't have to have anyone watch my daughter for that long (only takes a few minutes to do the ai).
If you would like it to be anonymous, we can do it that way, or I can have a signed contract excluding you from any and all responsibility for the child.
I am really hoping to find a donor by this Thursday or Friday (at the latest) as those are my fertile days for this month.
If this sounds like a good match for you, please contact me asap as I only have 4 to 5 days to find someone for this month. If you have any other questions, or would like to talk further, feel free to contact me. I am a very open and honest person and am just really wanting to do this as soon as possible.