I'm a single 30-year-old mixed race lady in a multi-racial adoptive family. While I'm very comfortable with and enjoy platonic relationships with men, I'm a virgin with no desire to play the dating game or get married. I run my family's budget and am an independent workaholic (security officer, same company for the last 7 years). I'm of Christian faith, but I am not a strict, judgemental nag nor do I belong to any church. I don't appreciate the facetious nature found in too many congregations. I prefer to discuss all issues openly and honestly, offering help where I can instead of putting on a facade of being the perfect little Christ followee. I avoid standing over others in a show of moral superiority as much as possible.

Currently, I'm raising four cats and a dog. I also am mentoring my preteen niece and nephew while helping raise my baby nephew. Believe me, my family understands co-parenting and being unconventional.

I really want to be an adoptive mother one day. I'm a strong supporter of men, paternal rights, and want my chidren to have a strong, consistent, loving, protective father in their lives. As a daddy's girl myself, I have so much respect for men, but prefer to be their daughter/sister/friend figure, not a girlfriend or wife.

I look forward to getting to know the potential adoptive dad of my future chidren 😊