We're a married couple, both 31, who have been together 10 years. Husband is a trans man (so, assigned female at birth). We've always wanted kids, and being childless is increasingly hard.

We're looking for a sperm donor for home AI. We've tried a few times with another donor, but logistics make it really challenging, so we're looking for someone closer to Newcastle.

We're much more concerned about the personality of the donor - whether they're genuinely a kind and altruistic person - than about most genetics-related issues.

We don't want to get too specific about ourselves here for fear of being outed, but, job-wise, one of us works with young children and is finishing a postgrad, and the other does an average kind of office job.