Looking for someone to help me & my partner have a child

I can't carry but we would like it to be as natural as possible

All we want is a child to love & nurture it doesn't matter to me if not generically mine as it will be our child & carry his dna & he is my soulmate

We would be looking for as much involvement in the conception & pregnancy as possible & an ongoing non parental relationship for the the biological mother if they wished to keep contact or regular updates whichever suits but we would want to parent as a couple with my partner being given custody at birth so then I could adopt our child legally

We are very committed to starting a family & will provide everything we can for our children they will be so loved

We took a long time to find each other so having a family would be a dream come true

We look forward to hearing from you