We are a married lesbian couple in our looking to start a family. We live in a farm in lake county California where we grow food and fruits. Hoping to grow some kids too. We are open to different kinds of arrangements as far as contact or involvement goes. Ideally a child has many loving adults to guide them to adulthood and we would be open to the donor being like the uncle who visits every so often if they choose to. Or not. Like I said we are open to the myriad of ways these connections could form organically.