Evolutionary / Santa Cruz
 
 
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Gender: Female

Age: 52

Location: Santa Cruz, CA, US

Hello there,

I have created a personal website JUST FOR THIS! It will really tell you just about everything you need to know:

http://coparentachild.wordpress.com/

I have been on a quest for three years to find a co-parent. I am about to turn 45 and am still determined to become a mother, though at this point I would almost positively need to adopt, get an egg donor or raise a child that another woman gives birth to.

I AM A:

CONSCIOUS, CREATIVE, ECO-CENTRIC, HEALTH-NUT
PERSONAL GROWTH JUNKIE, SPIRITUAL SEEKER
AND REVO-EVOLUTIONARY VISIONARY

I AM SEEKING ROMANTIC or PLATONIC COPARENT/S:

INDIVIDUAL OR COUPLE
MALE OR FEMALE

TO RAISE A CHILD OR TWO TOGETHER THAT:
I GIVE BIRTH TO
YOU GIVE BIRTH TO
WE ADOPT
(MULTIPLE OPTIONS FOR ALL OF THESE POSSIBILITIES)

MY QUEST:

For years now, I have been on the fence about having a child. I’ve met and heard of many women in similar situations. We’ve been unsure about motherhood, but thought a partner would come along and we’d decide together, or some other version of this dilemma. Yet, as women of a new era, many of us have been focused on our own education, growth, careers, artistic endeavors, etc., and time has gone by. Whether aware of it or not, our biological clocks kept on ticking as well.

Life has not turned out the way I had imagined in my childhood fantasies. I am 45 and single, with no children. In the summer and fall of 2009 I took on the wide and deep personal research project of deciding whether I actually want to have a child or not. Although I still have reservations, I have decided that . . . .

I INDEED DO WANT TO HAVE A CHILD..

I can imagine many scenarios with a male or female, romantic or platonic, individual or couple. It may end up being a situation with me and one other person, yet, I would ideally like to have a third parent on board somehow in order to make the work of parenting more balanced and manageable.

HERE ARE SOME POSSIBLE SCENARIOS:

I find a compatible soul-mate type person in time to have a child together and perhaps we find a third parent as well.
I bear a child for an infertile or gay couple and we raise the child together.
An older man and I raise a child together. Perhaps you want to be a parent, yet you are in your late 40s or older and concerned about finding the right romantic partner to do this with and you’ve decided you would prefer to parent in a platonic relationship at this point.
I raise a child with a woman whose fertility window is also closing and does not have time to find a compatible romantic partner to have a child with.
I raise a child with a couple that really wants all the benefits (financial, emotional, time and effort) of having a third parent on board.
Perhaps I co-parent with someone who has a very enthusiastic and supportive sibling or parent who would like to be involved in the parenting process.
And I am certainly open to doing this with someone who already has a child, as I would ideally like my son/daughter to have a sibling, but don’t think I will have two children myself.

Please contact me if you are interested in any way . .

Interested In

  • IVF
  • Egg Donation (recipient)
  • Adoption
  • Co-Parenting (female)
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